I think Life is a balance between a ton of different things... and I think Happiness comes from achieving that balance.
At the end of the day, I think we all have the same wish: To meet someone who understands us, loves us for who we naturally are, and fulfills all of our wildest fantasies.
If a person doesn't fit with you, and you don't fit with them, then you shouldn't be together forever. Period. I'm a creative person.. I need a woman who understands that and can participate in someway with that... Ideally, I'd love to find a woman who can show me up! and she'd be like "Pshh... yeah i heard "Jenn", it's cool, but you ain't heard my song "BEN" and then BAM... she blows my mind away with the most amazing groove and voice that could give Adam Lambert a run for his money... Will I ever find her? I don't know... maybe I have already and I missed her... maybe she doesn't exist... maybe she's right underneath my nose, maybe she's a man dressed in womans clothes.. (LOL j/k it rhymed...)
You have to make yourself... you have to find out who you are naturally programmed to be and then work with that, turning yourself into the person that you are destined to be... Everybody is programmed... everyone.. for a natural inborn tendency towards something.. no changing it.. I am programed for music.. no changing it.. If I stopped playing music today, and I became a Museum Curator, you would see my smile melt away faster than icecream in hell... Could I live like that? Sure... cause I'd find another way to make myself happy in another area and then deal with this feeling of misplacement, but that's no way to live... no way at all... You have to try and get it all, you just have to... you only live once (i think..) Don't settle, unless you have no choice...
Find the Woman or Man of your dreams, and don't settle for anything less... Honestly.. I love marriage, I think its beautiful... and I want it... but it's not for people who can't connect in ALL three vital areas with a score of at least 8 out of 10... To me, the three vital connection areas of romance are the Spiritual Connection, The Physical Connection and the Mental Connection
Spiritual meaning understanding each others eternal souls and feeling that bond of being a soulmate, a partner though this journey of life on earth.. feeling that true love... Physical connection, well... heh... if you don't know what that means, then you're not my soulmate! ;) The Mental connection is the attraction that comes from the things you say and do and talk about, your interests and your body language and just plainly your personality.
If you can't connect with someone on at least an 8/10 in all three areas... then I highly advise that you don't spend the rest of your life with them... I'm a big believer in holding out for the best and fully satisfying yourself instead of settling for something just because its on sale or because it's here now... I say wait, and hold out until you get exactly what you need to feel complete.
I miss the feeling of being in love... a lot... and I have so much love to give and no woman to receive it, but I know that will change... When? I don't know.. but one thing I do know, is that i'm not going to rush it, i'm not going to cry over it (too much...) i'm not going to have a crisis and say... oh my GOD i'm 30 and I'm not married, I need to meet someone right now... RIGHT NOW... and then marry the next woman that's willing to... that's as bad as going on ebay and buying a girlfriend... (the real kind, not the blow up kind...) I just don't care how long anything takes... I think we should all hold out until we are at least 90% happy with a person... At LEAST 90%... anything less is settling, settling leads to unhappiness and lacking, and that leads to wandering and cheating.
Goodnight
-Where's My Soulmate Sauter
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